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πŸ’ Empathy

Te Aroha β€” Understanding Others

🀝 Walking in Someone Else's Shoes

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. It's about imagining how someone else feels and responding with kindness. Empathy helps us build strong relationships and communities!

πŸ’­ Types of Empathy

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Cognitive Empathy

Understanding what someone is thinking

"I can see why you'd think that"

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Emotional Empathy

Feeling what someone else feels

"I feel sad when you're sad"

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Compassionate Empathy

Understanding + feeling + helping

"How can I help you?"

🌟 How to Show Empathy

Empathy Skills

  • πŸ‘‚ Listen actively β€” really pay attention
  • πŸ‘€ Watch body language β€” notice how they feel
  • ❓ Ask questions β€” "How are you feeling?"
  • 🚫 Don't judge β€” accept their feelings
  • πŸ’¬ Validate β€” "That sounds really hard"
  • πŸ€— Offer support β€” be there for them

🎭 Practice Scenarios

Scenario 1

Your friend didn't get picked for the sports team. They look really upset.

Empathetic response: "That must feel really disappointing. I know how much you wanted to make the team."

Scenario 2

A classmate is sitting alone at lunch looking sad.

Empathetic response: Go sit with them and ask "Would you like some company? Is everything okay?"

🌿 Te Ao Māori Connection

Aroha β€” Deep Love and Compassion

  • Aroha includes empathy, love, and compassion
  • Manaakitanga β€” caring for others' wellbeing
  • Whanaungatanga β€” connection through relationships
  • Empathy is central to strong whānau and community

✏️ Activities

Response Practice

Your friend just lost their pet. What would you say?

My empathetic response:

Reflection

Think of a time someone showed you empathy. How did it make you feel?

πŸ‘©β€πŸ« Teacher Notes

Curriculum Links

  • Health: Relationships β€” interpersonal skills